Things are going well

I have been meaning to write here for a while, but have not had much time. Sir uses the computer for school so he uses the computer most nights. I’ve also been playing a lot of video games lately, haha. Between my little one and watching my friend’s little one, I have very little free time during the day when I do have the opportunity to write. I usually try to take a nap or get something productive done or play the current game I am playing. I have a little time now so have decided to write up a little bit of an update.

As the title says, things are going well here. We need to get back into some blog reading but we are learning. We are growing. We have hit our fair share of speed bumps along the way, but getting over the first mountain of a hurdle makes the little ones not seem quite so bad. But it all feels so right. It’s definitely working and I never want to look back. Sometimes we automatically revert back to vanilla, but we are working on curbing that and figuring out new ways that work for us to stop us from doing so.

Some big things may be in store for this coming year, so my blog will probably continue to be fairly boring and uneventful. I think I’m not going to have much time to write. But just know that things for me are going super wonderful and I hope that they continue to go in that direction.


Happy 2015

Happy New Year to everyone! The last few weeks have been quite the whirlwind of craziness. I had a birthday party for A on the 13th, that actually went very well. The girls had a great time. Unfortunately 3 cancelled last minute due to sickness, but the ones who did come had a great time. That night I had a girls’ night out with my sisters and cousin. We had a great time with that (it was the first night out with both my sisters, my youngest sister just turned 21 at the beginning of December). The following day I had developed a nasty stomach bug. I won’t get into details, but I was running a fever and extremely nauseous. I felt better the next day, but still felt like I was hit by a bus (I very rarely run a fever, and my body does not handle it well after the fact when I do). That Tuesday was A’s 6th birthday and we had been planning to go out to eat for her birthday. I decided that I was feeling well enough to go, so we did. Our trip was cut short though, because E started throwing up. We went home and she continued to heave every 15-20 minutes. We were finally able to get her to sleep, and luckily she slept all night. She got better and then A had one rough night, but she never got the fever and hers only lasted the one night.

After the sickness cleared out (and 500 loads of hot water laundry later), it was time to get everything ready for Christmas the following week. Christmas was busy but not overwhelming, thank goodness. We stayed at my parents a few days longer than that for my cousin’s wedding, A was one of the flower girls for that. Saturday was a circus before the wedding, but the rest of the day went by so well. We had a lot of fun that night, all of us.

This week has been filled with opening the boxes that contained the Christmas gifts, washing new clothes, and just trying to take things easy. We didn’t do much for New Year’s Eve, just stayed home and enjoyed a couple of drinks. A left for the rest of the week and the weekend to have Christmas with her paternal grandfather. Friday, E will be going to her grandparents house for a couple of days, so we get to have a kid-free couple of days.

It has been a long time since we have done any type of real scene. I’m ready for another one, and I’m hoping that this weekend we will be able to enjoy being able to do one. Obviously, it’s all my husband’s call as to whether we do or not but I have a feeling he’s got something up his sleeve! 😉 It’s very rare that we are kid-free and we have some new toys that we are pretty excited to use. 🙂 We really should make the most of the time that we will have, because here in January we are planning to start trying for baby #3, which we are both very very excited about.

I am looking forward to 2015 and what it will bring. I am excited about walking this journey of D/s with my husband and seeing where it takes us. I feel really good about this year. I feel like many discoveries, new adventures, and great things are in store for 2015. I sure hope that I’m right!